What do you most need to make you more effective in living for God?
1 Corinthians 13.1-3 tells us that the answer is LOVE. If we don’t have love for people, it doesn’t matter how good we are at speaking to them; it doesn’t matter how much we know and understand of God with our minds; it doesn’t matter how much faith we have; it doesn’t even matter how sacrificial we are in the way we live – it will all be worthless, ‘as nothing’, without love as the motivation.
We sometimes talk about being able to ‘see people through Jesus’ eyes’ – this seems like a good prayer to pray, as he saw people with eyes of compassion and forgiveness and LOVE. That’s how we need to see people too, before we start thinking about strategies for reaching them with the gospel.
What does it look like to love other people?
Essentially, it means that we are prepared to do anything, to pay any price, so that they might know God, because He is their deepest need.
Think about what Jesus tells us are the ‘greatest’ commandments: ‘Love God with everything you are; and love your neighbour as yourself’. Everything else in the Bible ‘hangs’ from this, comes out of this. And the commandments are intrinsically linked together.
- First, we need to learn to love God; He must become the object of our love, and our whole lives must be about loving Him, because it’s when we love Him wholeheartedly that we come to find out that God is the One who can bring satisfaction to our souls – we were made, above all, to love Him, so it’s when we love Him that we feel fulfilled.
- Then, we see that what it means, above all, to love our neighbours is to help our neighbours to see how wonderful God is and to love Him for themselves. That’s how they’ll be satisfied, too.
- Often, the world suggests that loving people is just making them feel ‘better about themselves’, focusing on them and telling them how great they are. But that’s a big distortion of real love, which is to help people know God, to share Him with them. It’s like, Piper says, taking someone to the Alps and then locking them in a room of mirrors. We don’t need to point people to themselves, but to God.
How do we do this?
Well, in all sorts of different ways. As 1 Corinthians 12 says, we Christians are a body. We work together in fulfilling God’s purposes. So, we need to ask ourselves and each other: ‘what gifts has God given me?’; ‘how can I be using these gifts to love other people and point them to God?’
It might be that your gifts are to do with talking to other people about Jesus and his good news. But it might be that you are often doing things that are ‘behind the scenes’. Maybe you’re an especially gifted pray-er. Maybe you could be using your time and money more effectively to point other people to God.
Think about these things – what part will you play in ‘taking back the city’ for Him? How can you work with the other members of the body to give other people a picture of who God is?
1 Corinthians 13
1If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. 2If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. 3If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing.